More and more people come to me clinic in their life
" All is well " - family , property , occupation , health and screaming
- Usually silently - bad me! I'm dying inside, did not enjoy , not happy ...
And I do not understand - why? !
We begin a journey together. Life journey that passes through pain.
Therapy pain. That the size of our ability to accommodate and live with pain
So our ability to live.
Imagine a situation where a baby had fallen several times when he tried to stand and walk ,
Decide that walking is not for him and continues his life on the ventral ...
Luckily - go , is not in question. Our physical in nature .
No matter how we fall and get up , we will go to the end .
Unfortunately - not so for life. Our nature , mental , spiritual - is to live,
Develop , grow, but in this case - as opposed to walking , we decide
Many times this story of rise and fall is not for us ...
Once we begin to live we begin to fall.
We are experiencing pain again and again . From birth traumatic for all of us
We journey that pain is an integral part of it.
Feeling hungry not provided in time, Tosic burning provisions ,
Abdominal pain , teeth , ears - undermine the confidence to mean good "
Before we know the general words.
We "fall " when the world is not acting in complete accord our wishes
And our needs , and get up . As we grow and mature we are less rise .
Someone laughed and mocked me - do not laugh more public.
Someone dancing prettier than me - I will not dance .
King of the class select the class queen - king of the class will never be mine.
I woke music teacher in the classroom - will not sing anymore.
Boy broke my heart - I will not believe in men .
Not Won occupies the neighborhood - I do not know run.
The very hugs mother Little Sister - I do not deserve love ...
And really , there's something downright silly about going back to places where you fall in the past.
It totally makes sense ! ! ! But life is not something that makes sense.
Even God does not . Do not love ...
So go and created a paradox. On the one hand we grow in years,
Our body grows , increasing our capabilities and knowledge , and we
Even become parents, and on the other , we are shrinking .
The pain reduces us. Reduces the experience of our life.
We lose the flexibility and spontaneity of stand up after
Fall. Unlike baby who insists on going - we give up .
Non-" becoming bigger and stronger and yes " weakened.
Life are becoming a burdensome , pointless , tiring ,
Demanding and more. What idea of life in general ?
And here is the wonderful thing of all - our choice .
Choose life . HURT our pain , we look at and learn from mistakes ,
Change and adapt and go mad and fling but one thing I wish
Not to do - do not give up! ! !
We fell in love - painfully , learn and be open to fall in love again!
Have been betrayed - believe again! ! Failed - try again! !
For more information on what alternative psychology .
Nietzsche said "What does not kill me makes me stronger "
And I say - What is courage ? Courage is " open sore " .
There is no other choice. Otherwise - it's to die as we live ...
When we do not surrender , when we choose life,
When we get up after a fall wounded , bleeding , sweating ,
Painful even though we know that the next plague will -
Only then , hell , we live in ! We are shining ! Lively !
We erect , stubborn , we are beautiful, young , we Brash
And we do not allow anyone off us.
Time and again choose life !
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